It is important sometimes to stay my ground, focus on what is going on and observe every single element around me to know what is beneficial and what is neutral, what is bad and what is the worst.
I’m staying my grounds, and noticing that a lot of the things that I was considering very important to me are actually not ! … yes believe me when I say, You need to reevaluate your surroundings, the people you deal with frequently, and the family members that are close to you. And my friend, you will be shocked from the number of people you are welling to eliminate, I’m not saying they are bad, but I’m saying that at one point of your life, you needed being with them, at another point, you don’t ! Actually they might pull you back and stop you from growing and keeping your path.
I know a bunch of people, friends if you well, who didn’t walk one step forward for the last 7 years, they talk about the same subjects, do the same things, always depressed, always not welling to do anything new. These people should be far from you because you will not be able to take them with you, but they might be able to pull you back and make you set down, hold a cigarette and play with your phone !
Staying my ground in such up and down period of my life while I’m evaluating and taking decisions is the best solution to keep myself safe, stable and able to handle all the changes.
It is not easy, it might be wrong sometimes, but this is what I’m doing currently, and may god be with us all.